If I had more awareness I could have….
Fill in the blank for whatever you want.
For me it is:
…not gotten so frustrated about something so small.
…realized someone needed something else.
…seen the connection between what they said and what someone else referenced.
…done the work that mattered most instead of simply what was in front of me.
How do we get this added insight?
There’s no shortcut. We must make time for it.
For me the most powerful and time effective solution is a journal keeping rhythm.
As with any rhythm of mine, it is not about doing the same thing every single day but valuing the practice enough that I have a rhythm of engagement.
For example, I did not journal at all this past weekend but this morning, I jotted down a few ideas I had over the weekend. This afternoon as with most afternoons this week I will spend at least 15 minutes writing in my journal. Sometimes I pick it up in the middle of the day or print out a picture I like and paste it in.
It felt more like a routine at first. I found value in it enough that it showed up more regularly and was actually a rhythm.
There was a piece of conquering my will when first trying out but eventually it was purely something the deeper parts of myself were drawn to.
Keep a journal. If it serves you well. If it doesn’t find another rhythm that helps you build insight and awareness. If each of us were a tad more aware, we’d all be better off.
Inspired by this added push to journal keeping by Harvard Business Review Article I came across. It gives a few good steps to try to get started as well as a few ‘trigger questions.’ More of my posts on journal found here…I tend to write about it a lot because it’s truly been valuable to me.