I question myself often.

I do so especially when I don’t hear any criticism or haven’t been able to think through an idea, situation, plan with someone else.

I question because I rely on someone else to tell me what’s wrong about it.

I should be more confident in solidarity but also could be much more successful if I have close friends who I can be sure would tell me if I’m wrong or going the wrong way.

If I know they are near and aware of what is going on, I have much more confidence.

It takes me hearing and them honestly telling. I need more direct and truthful people like that in my life.

My wife Kelly is much better at directions than I am. When she is in the passenger seat and paying attention, I confidently make decisions on where to go because I know if I’m about to change lanes when I’m not suppose to, she will call me on it.