I heard a friend share this idea of taking the things we communicate as “If Only..” Statements and switching them for a more helpful and holistic attitude.
If only I could do all of what I love at work, then I’d have meaning
If only I could get them to want me then, I’d be on the right path.
If only I could catch a break, then I could get going.
Instead I’m going to think of it this way…
Even if most my job isn’t directly connected to passions, I’ll find meaning in the midst.
Even if they don’t want me, I’ll find the right path.
Even if I don’t catch a break, things will keep going.
This transition has to come from a realization of the magnitude of life and trust there is goodness to be seen and tasted. For me that is the overflow of my faith in a God who does everything to bring us into His Kingdom and bring His Kingdom to us. Even giving up Himself to make it all right.
I feel freed when I transition to “Even If.” “If Only” bounds me tighter and tighter. Keeping me from releasing all that is possible.
Thanks to Coleman McIntyre for sharing this powerful message!